I actually hate happy endings. They don't make you feel good. At least not me. When a emotional meaningfull movie has a happy ending I feel cheated. I know it does happen sometimes, that things turn around the good way, but most of the time it doesn't. If it did people wouldn't be suffering as much as they do.
People wouldn't be so cruel to eachother. The world would be full of people riding unicorns and walk on rainbows. If everything always turned out okay nobody would have stress, nobody would be unhappy, ever.
People would be lazy and ignorant though.They wouldn't know what to do with their life's anymore. No goals cause you reach them anyway. It would be pretty boring I think.
We're not made for an easy life. We're mentally very complicated and tough. Our mind is designed to deal with difficult tasks and situations. If everything went well all the time we would become nuts and all end up in crazy homes.
I would at least. I don't expect things to just work out. It never just does. And if it does I become suspicious. You have to fight for happiness and even then it doesn't always work out. We struggle through life and love it. Most people just wait for the moment everything falls to pieces and they can start all over again. And sometimes it's the best thing that could've happend.
Having worked hard for something is way more satisfying than actually getting it. It's just the reward. As soon as you get the reward it only takes time before you take it for granted. When something goes to total shit
you learn. It ads important life lessons.
Maybe I just see these things differently. I do try to appreciate the things I worked hard for, and not take them for granted. Ofcourse I hope my life will stay and be a happy one, but in the meantime I just hold on for the ride and try to prepare for whats coming.
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